Resolution #2 - Clean out the stuff that doesn't belong in your bedroom.
Your bedroom is for loving and sleeping. Creating an environment that fosters that will impact your entire life. And it sets the example for everyone else in the home. I was very tempted to move the furniture in the family room in such a way that I could just haul it all out there, but then that would have just created other issues. So I started on one side of the room and worked my way across, piling up things to go to good will, having LRHB carry things out to correct places. I took my large kitchen garbage can (cleaned) and put a bag in it and filled it with books for donating as well as other stuff because that is where the donating stuff gets put, on the floor of my room. I discovered every extra pillow we own was in there in a pile under a blanket; who knew. LRHB had a tent in there left from a "sleep w/mom & dad night" we had LAST SUMMER. I also discovered several other items that people had offered to me (sure, I'll take it) and I stashed in my room not knowing why I said yes. GONE.
Sleeping and Loving.